Release lingering emotional charge, stop ruminating, and regain clarity after a breakup or divorce.
"Moving on" isn't always enough, a past relationship isn't just an emotional event; it can become a "stuck pattern" that drains creative energy and sabotages future success. Many people carry a "tangled and charged history" into their next partnership without realizing that they are still mentally and energetically coupled to the past. We help you process, complete and go beyond recent breakups or divorces, and reclaim your inner peace and composure.
“At Ability Clearing, we believe that clarity leads to peace. Our mission is to empower individuals to discover their inner serenity through focused guidance and listening without judgment.”
Ability Clearing is a structured, one-on-one process, online or in person, designed to clear emotional charge, resolve broken communication, and break recurring patterns.
Through guided, non-judgmental inquiry - where you fully express yourself without interruption, advice, or debate - your facilitator (Clearer) acts as a neutral mirror to help you process topics from start to finish.
The Result: Immediate emotional relief, deep personal insights, elevated mood, and the clarity to move forward with unshakeable honesty.
Our structured Ability Clearing sequence is a goal-oriented project - not talk therapy - designed to bring "stuck" patterns out into the open and fully resolve them.
Through a systematic process, we:
Clear Emotional Charge: Identify and release unresolved guilt, regrets, and traumatic patterns from past intimate relationships.
Reclaim Boundaries: Address hidden issues, over-responsibility, and boundary violations to restore your personal space.
Expose Objective Reality: Strip away self-limiting beliefs (like "I'm unlovable") to see the facts clearly.
Finalize Unfinished Business: Resolve tangible ties to the emotional "Final Good-bye."
The Result: Mental and emotional release, total closure, and the freedom to move forward without carrying the weight of the past.
Once the past is cleared, we shift the focus to your future. This phase sets a subtle basis for success by defining exactly what you have to give and what a partner can offer you.
Wisdom Integration: We extract the "lessons learned" and identify the specific mistakes you will not repeat in your next relationship.
Availability Clearing: We clarify the difference between "available" and "unavailable" partners to ensure your energy is directed toward a feasible and fulfilling commitment.
Strategic Preparation: From defining what "marriage" or "commitment" means to you, to physically preparing for a partner who is looking for someone exactly like you, we bridge the gap between clearing and action.
My journey into self-discovery began in the 1980s, leading to my first Enlightenment Intensive in 1985 and certification as an independent Enlightenment Intensive Master in 2012. Over the decades, I’ve deepened my practice through extensive training in Clearing methods across Serbia, Switzerland, and Italy, collaborating with leading professionals from Europe and the US.
To enrich my work, I also did some training in Gestalt and somatic therapy. As an author of two books on Natural Meditation and Enlightenment Intensives, I’ve spent years writing, lecturing, and leading workshops across my region. Today, I specialize in helping clients transform their relationships and communication challenges into opportunities for deep, lasting clarity.
"For the first time I have been able to forgive myself, and knowing that mistakes happen and that is ok because we are all human. I also was able to repair many issues with others. I felt free, I physically felt like I had landed in my body I could feel the temperature of the air around my body, I could feel the presence of the walls in my office. My space truly expanded and I was free from issues I thought I had created through this life time, which were holding me back from so many things. To say I am excited is an understatement. I couldn’t do it without the care, skills and patience of my clearer Michael Salihovich!"
D. J., United Kingdom
"I am experiencing a sense of regained confidence in my communication abilities, which I believe is a very important part of life. I feel that I have more control over my speech, my ability to remain silent, and also a sense of taking responsibility for my relationships".
A. H., India
"It is no exaggeration to say that I AM a new person. However, it’s more accurate to say that I am now my true self, no longer blinded or hindered by self-created illusions and auto-generated problems. The Clearing has removed the sting from the bee, and all my sorrows and fears have essentially vanished. Life has never been better than it is now."
M.R., Germany
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